I woke up at 5:45 in the morning, did my brush and while taking a sip of tea was reading newspaper. I was just reading it form surface because lot many things to do. But when I came at last page there was news “A 15 yeas boy hang him self and got died”. This was not first time, in last one month I have gone through at least 20-22 suicide cases of board student. And still now thinking that “why they are doing suicide.?”
Suicide is not a small thing, it is crime in India. While the time of doing suicide, unfortunately if you saved from it then really you will die. This doesn’t mean that I am telling you to do suicide.
As we all know what kind of pressure board students are facing at time of their examination. This pressure is not a pressure of study. This pressure is a “social pressure”. Every body has feared of getting low percentage. Parents are tries to complete their expectations from children.
But no one thinks about the condition of child. In fact he is not fears from getting less percentage but he is fears from the consequences of that percentage. And at that time, the condition of the child is so worst that even he can’t talk on this to anybody.
Just imagine that before 2 days of board exams a child goes to his parents and frankly tell them that I am not able to perform as per your expectations then what could be the replied. If parents are mine then they replies that who told you to perform you just go and perform. I don’t care how you perform. But these are my parents but in generally parents replies “I invested lot many in your education and now you are telling me that you are not able to perform as per our expectations.”
So, understand the dilemma from child.
Here child understand that if I’ll get less percentage then it would be insulted for my parents so let me do suicide. So that at least they are not blaming for my low result.
In movie “3 idiots”, aamir told that in grade sheets there should be only roll numbers instead of their names. But according to me, the result should be banned on notice board. Students have to be informing his result by e-mail.
And at last I would like to say that the marking should not be on the assignment completed by student or by answer written in exams but it should be on the effort which is made by student.


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